Audrie & Daisy
Directed by: Bonni Cohen & Jon
Shenk.
Watching
Audrie & Daisy is one of the more depressing things you will do this year –
and yet, it’s also something that I hope many people do. This is a documentary
that concentrates on the rape cases involving two teenage girls – who lived at
different ends of the country – both of whom got drunk, passed out and got
assaulted by boys they thought were their friends. As if that wasn’t bad
enough, they suffered after the events through a non-stop barrage of insults
and harassment on social media – pictures and videos of their assaults were
taken, and passed around for everyone to see. The abuse is so bad that both
girls will eventually try to kill themselves – one of them will succeed.
Directed
by Bonni Cohen and Jon Shenk, Audrie & Daisy is about these two specific
cases – but it’s also about the wider picture that allows these types of cases
to happen. If you want an example of rape culture, there are few better
examples of it than what happened in the case of Daisy Coleman – who was 14 when
she and a friend went to an older boy’s place – where they were given enough
alcohol to make them passout and then raped. When the boys drive Daisy home,
she is so drunk they cannot get her to wakeup – so they simply leave her on the
front lawn, despite the fact that it’s freezing outside. It’s there where her
mother will find her the next day – her hair frozen to the ground. She is taken
to the hospital – a rape kit is done, her blood alcohol level is taken (it
almost at the point where alcohol poisoning will set in). The boy involved will
end up getting off with a slap on the wrist – if that. Amazingly, the Sheriff
who investigated the case willing gives an interview to the filmmakers – and
comes across horrible – the living embodiment of rape culture. He praises the
boys for “moving on” with their lives, he says that nothing that night rose to
the level of rape because Daisy didn’t fight back – when asked if having sex
with a girl who has passed out is considered rape, he defers “that’s a question
for lawyers and legislators”. He says girls have as much responsibility for
what happens as boys do – and when the filmmakers say “But in this case, it was
the boys who committed the crime”, he chuckles and responds “Did they?”. It’s infuriating.
What happened to Audrie Pott is
also tragic. She goes to a party, gets drunk and passes out – a group of boys
who she thinks are her friends, strip her, draw all over her body with marker –
writing horrible things on her – and a few of them “finger” her – although they’ll
claim she liked that. When she wakes up the next day, she tries to figure out
what happened to her – 8 days later, unable to take the abuse, she hangs
herself. Two of the boys who assaulted Pott are in the documentary – they have
been “animated” to protect their identities – giving these interviews with the
filmmakers is part of their plea bargain in the civil case Pott’s parents brought
against them. They are emotionless and uncomfortable as they talk about what
they did – and what they learned from the case. They are also self-pitying –
talking about the effect it has had on them. They, too, got off with little
actual punishment – and will be able to go about their lives unharmed.
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